Dealing With Tension

Lapping each a friend on the move, according to well-known principle: "The main thing – to get involved in the fight, and there already … ' * Well, the woman in the family is interested, and that its strategy is clear. This is normal and good, if everything turned out. And if not? Most often, just on the 'path of the heart' family and we do not get: we too are very different, and the 'heart' we are different, how much tension and clashes in store for us this way! * Get ground through the hassle – probably too expensive. In addition, subject to rough grinding patterns: who is stronger, the lap and the other to her. Makes another 'for themselves'. 'The Way of the heart' – it's beautiful. But the heart of the fickle and inconstant as the wind, but also, unfortunately, often cruel and selfish.

* Not? Listen only what is said 'in the hearts' at home clashes! All from the heart – and into the heart of … And I think as a man and a psychologist, that this 'way of the heart' should be supplemented 'by reason', when to talk and negotiate, at As the main thing. It will not be living by the rules – it's just life with the rules. If the rules are reasonable, they make it easier to family life, and in difficult times and maintain. So let's get together to discuss some issues that are principle for relations between the spouses, who are laying the foundations of their family life.